Posts Tagged ‘Self Development’

When a Door Closes in Your Life…

Life Coach

Life Coach

Generally when one door closes in my life instead of being sad, worried or concerned about what’s next or if I’ve done the right thing….

I’m excited to step into the unknown and have more energy than ever!

People often fear change or are sorry or sad about a chapter in their lives closing.

But when you know it’s the right choice and time then it can be really easy and taking action can be a very empowering experience; for you’re taking control of your life and not sitting around allowing others to end up deciding for you.

For those of you who are thinking about change or closing a door to a particular chapter in your life be it a career move, relationship or even living location then remember these two things:

1. If you’re not moving forwards you’re actually going backwards and

2. For new opportunities to arise sometimes you need to close/end one thing in able to make room for new. And this can often me saying goodbye to your old path and way of doing things and looking for new.

I personally love going out there and telling the universe that ‘here I am!’ and ‘I’m ready for you to throw at me my next big challenge in life!’ But for those perhaps not so spiritually minded and are thinking about closing a door first remember

· Be grateful and appreciative of where you’ve been, what you’ve learnt and accomplished.

· Realize that now all you may need to do is move forth with knowledge (so get your facts and reality straight before closing something off) and confidence and no fear and see and be open and aware to what new door will/may open for you.

· If you’re feeling loss, fear or anxiety then your door might not be quite ready to close yet or at all.

If you work on yourself, perhaps with a trusted person, mentor or your life coach, then you will be in a better position to close a door with confidence and full knowing of uncertainty.

Live Your Best Life!

Jacqueline Pigdon Jina Life Coach

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Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon

Tel No : +61 (0) 404 362 379

Email : jacqueline@jinalife.com

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Posted by Jacqueline Pigdon on July 4th, 2009 No Comments

Facing the Fear of Failure

Buckminster Fuller wrote, “Whatever humans have learned had to be learned as a consequence only of trial and error experience. Humans have learned only through mistakes.”

Many people achieve a small fraction of what they are capable of achieving because they are afraid to try in case they fail. In society today, even though it encourages innovation, it also punishes failure. So is the fear of punishment the key to the fear of failure?

A fear of failing will result in a person avoiding situations/challenges/decisions that doesn’t guarantee success. Thus when confronted with a questionable/challenging task, anxiety develops and, like any fear, the person backs away.This is natural.

However, taking risks is one of the only ways to get ahead in life, and with risk comes a chance of failure. Those with good vision and self belief are those who are able to overcome this fear and take the risks needed to excel in all aspects of their lives.

Nervousness of the task ahead shows humility on what is expected and questioning the task shows that the ego is checked into place. This allows for someone to succeed since arrogance and ego are all but gone. It shows that they are ready.

Are you ready?

For more information
Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon
Tel No   : +61 (0) 404 362 379
Email    : jacqueline@jinalife.com

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Posted by Jacqueline Pigdon on April 25th, 2009 No Comments

Never Give Up!

“When things go wrong as they sometimes will;
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill;
When the funds are low, and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but have to sigh;
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but do not quit.
Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit-
It’s when things go wrong that you must not quit.”

- Unknown-

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Posted by Jacqueline Pigdon on April 12th, 2009 No Comments

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