Posts Tagged ‘Decision Making’

I can tell you what your Purpose in life is right now…

Most people who come to us at Jina Life are looking for their Purpose In Life.

They want direction, to feel fulfilled and be happy making a difference…

Does this sound like you?

Do you struggle to know what your purpose is in life?

Do you feel that if only you knew what it is you would do it?

Well here is your answer and I may not have even ever met you…

 

It’s to “HELP OTHERS!”

 Helping others gives you more fulfilment than you can possibly imagine!

If you’re currently feeling empty I can bet you are not really helping others. And dare I say it – All you’re thinking about is YOURSELF and what YOU DON’T have!

Once you know that your purpose in life is to HELP OTHERS then you just need to decide how and in what form or medium you are best going to do this:

My tip wherever you are in your life right now, I don’t care how much you don’t like your current job, company, boss, family, friends, location etc start TODAY!

Look for opportunities in your life RIGHT NOW. This will help you feel better and be your first step onto your right path to fulfil your purpose.

Make what is important to those important to you also important to you and help them achieve it!  

Once you’ve done this then look back in your life and write down 5 things that you are particularly good at. Forget about looking for a title and start utilising those strengths where you are now.

They are the first three steps. If you need more help finding your medium to fulfil your purpose in life give me a call or drop me an email because I would love to help you discover and support you by taking you through all the steps you need to take!

Remember help someone else first and they will only want to help you back….

Live Your Best Life!

Jacqueline Pigdon Jina Life Coach

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Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon

Tel No : +61 (0) 404 362 379

Email : jacqueline@jinalife.com

P.S. Are You Stuck In A Rut? Do you know you need some help getting out? Request your Complimentary Coaching Session Today! CLICK HERE!

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Posted by Jacqueline Pigdon on June 6th, 2010 No Comments

DO IT! Before it’s too late…

So we all know that we need to appreciate the things we have in life and in this world while we have them…

but how many people actually do this?

 Not that many!!

 Most people take things for granted and don’t do the things they know they should be doing until it’s too late…

 Will it be too late for you?

 Will you regret not telling your loved ones how much you love them?

 Will you continue to abuse your body until you find out you’re terribly sick and dying?

 Will you put off until tomorrow what you can in fact do today?

 I have many clients who really struggle to do what they know they should be doing now.. but yet they can’t!

 Why? What is it going to take to get YOU to take action?

Get serious, get passionate, have fun and just do it!

My advice is do it before it’s too late… it’s not that hard.

You know you can do it and if you know you can but don’t – that’s where it will be too late for you and you will only live with regrets.

So are you going to do it now?

Don’t miss out!

 
Live Your Best Life!

Jacqueline Pigdon Jina Life Coach

For more information

Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon

Tel No : +61 (0) 404 362 379

Email : jacqueline@jinalife.com

P.S. Are You Stuck In A Rut? Do you know you need some help getting out? Request your Complimentary Coaching Session Today! CLICK HERE!

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Posted by Jacqueline Pigdon on June 5th, 2010 No Comments

Who Should You Listen To For Advice?

This is my 100th article I’ve written on lifestyle topics for Jina Life and I have been inspired by the Youth Leadership Program I’m currently running at Kadinia International College through Toastmasters International as this week’s focus was listening skills. The importance of showing respect, paying attention and being a good audience when someone else is speaking.

But in this article I’m going to take it deeper to discuss who you should listen to when seeking advice on challenging life decisions.

I quote Ralph Waldo Emerson…

“Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them.”

So how do you know who you should listen to and who are your biggest critics?

The reason why there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong is because everyone has their own opinion and perception of your situation. You must realise they are fully entitled to their own opinion but remember they are looking at your situation from where they stand. Now this can often be extremely beneficial gaining advice from someone looking from the outside in. However these perceptions can also sometimes be biased depending on who you’re listening to. Perhaps advice simply on what they would do if they were you, or advice for you that keeps them happy. You may want to believe that everyone you ask for advice has your best interests at heart but don’t be mistaken and also realise at the end of the day – they are not you.

When it comes down to it you must make your own decisions in life and you are the one that has to live with them. Gaining outside advice can be paramount in helping you live your best life especially when it’s in an area you don’t have professional skills in or would just like to save yourself from making mistakes you see others do.

Keep in mind some people just can’t see or share your vision until you’ve created it for them to physically see. Others can help you see your path more clearly faster. Some can see your mistakes before you make them.

Think back to your past, who have you listened to, followed their advice and it turned out well? Then who in the past have you allowed yourself to listen to, made you feel better at the time but it worked out badly or you live with regrets from following that advice?

Bad advice for you generally goes against your inner instinct. When you’re faced with a decision and are struggling to make it, it can often mean your darkness or fear is tempting you to take the wrong path as opposed to the right path for you.

Ultimately you want to establish who no matter what, will tell you the truth and what you NEED to hear not always what you WANT to hear when you become challenged with a decision to make.

The reason you want to establish this early is because when you find yourself faced with a tough decision you want to be sure if seeking advice you will go straight to the person you know and trust, who understands you and shares your values and vision and not to those who don’t, yet you may be drawn to. The wrong people are those who will help you justify your decision over making the right decision for you.

For more information
Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon
Tel No   : +61 (0) 404 362 379
Email    : jacqueline@jinalife.com

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Posted by Jacqueline Pigdon on September 21st, 2009 No Comments

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