Most people who come to us at Jina Life are looking for their Purpose In Life.

They want direction, to feel fulfilled and be happy making a difference…

Does this sound like you?

Do you struggle to know what your purpose is in life?

Do you feel that if only you knew what it is you would do it?

Well here is your answer and I may not have even ever met you…

It’s to “HELP OTHERS!”

 Helping others gives you more fulfilment than you can possibly imagine!

If you’re currently feeling empty I can bet you are not really helping others. And dare I say it – All you’re thinking about is YOURSELF and what YOU DON’T have!

Once you know that your purpose in life is to HELP OTHERS then you just need to decide how and in what form or medium you are best going to do this:

My tip – wherever you are in your life right now, I don’t care how much you don’t like your current job, company, boss, family, friends, location etc start TODAY!

Look for opportunities in your life RIGHT NOW. This will help you feel better and be your first step onto your right path to fulfil your purpose.

Make what is important to those important to you also important to you and help them achieve it!  

Once you’ve done this then look back in your life and write down 5 things that you are particularly good at. Forget about looking for a title and start utilising those strengths where you are now.

They are the first three steps. If you need more help finding your medium to fulfil your purpose in life give me a call or drop me an email because I would love to help you discover and support you by taking you through all the steps you need to take!

Remember help someone else first and they will only want to help you back….

Live Your Best Life!

For more information

Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon

Tel No : +61 (0) 404 362 379

Email : jacqueline@jinalife.com

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If you are constantly bombarded with phone calls from others demanding your urgent attention to address an issue, answer a question, resolve a problem and put out all the fires for them…

Guess what?

You actually want this!

That’s right – You are getting all this attention because you actually want it and have attracted it to yourself.

You may think but no I do not want this especially on my day off when I just feel like getting away and being free – people still call and they can’t seem to move on and live without me even for one precious day.

On top of this you feel you can’t let them be to take care of it themselves either.

Now we’re all needed by other people in our lives and that’s a wonderful thing to have but not when things become so out of balance that you feel you can’t even take a second to take a breath.

Also sometimes there are emergencies, but I’m not talking about occasional urgent calls that only you can resolve or your loved ones just wanting to talk to you. I’m talking about those people who can’t have a one hour meeting without coming out of it with at least three urgent phone messages. Those who can’t get their work done at work due to constant demands on them and those who can’t take a day off without being interrupted by all the people calling them.    

So why do people in this situation want this?

Because they desperately want to feel needed. They want to feel wanted. When they lack feeling really needed and wanted by the most important people in their lives and their life partners they fill the void by getting it from others. As many others as possible and then the number just grows and grows.

They love it the majority of the time because it does make them feel good for a while, but like any filling of voids soon enough it gets too much and you feel more empty than the void itself.

Then these people resent the demanding people they have in their lives and wish they could just leave them alone for just one day.

So if this is you, as much as you may not like to think it is, but if your attention is demanded 24/7 365 a year you have constant urgent demands from others… here are my tips for you!

1. You need to work on empowering others. AND when you empower others to do things remember they probably won’t be as good at it as you are in the beginning. But I’m sure you didn’t get your skills in this area overnight either. The only way they will learn and be able to take more responsibility off you in the long run is to let them go through the teething process. The more you try and take the ownership back (because you want everyone calling and wanting you and/or you can just do it faster) the longer this process and issue you have of ‘no time to yourself’ will last.

2. When people ask for your advice or what to do in a situation, ask them what they think and answer or solution is first. When they get it right it gives them confidence that they actually know a lot of the answers themselves and thus don’t need you as much. Again don’t be afraid of not being needed – if you’re in fear you will just run right into your own fear.

3. Don’t answer your phone on your day off, let work carry on without you and work on your personal relationship/s.

4. Teach people that if they want to get hold of you they may need to wait. This way others will learn to look ahead for potential issues and book you in first with notice taking away the constant urgency of task and last minute issue resolution.

5. Know your own worth and work on your self confidence.

Live Your Best Life!

For more information
Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon
Tel No : +61 (0) 404 362 379
Email : jacqueline@jinalife.com

So often I see clients make the right decisions for them, they analyse their options, talk things through and come to their decision.

But then something happens – they start to talk themselves out of the decision!

It’s amazing how many reasons you can come up with on why not to do something. It can be endless….

Why?

Because of fear making the wrong choice – it’s safer to stay where you are and never find out your possible future failure.

But I’m not here to talk about decision making today. If you need help on making decisions in your life then CLICK HERE to read my article ‘What Happens When You Avoid Making Decisions’.

What I do want to talk about today is how to stop getting in the way of your own self.

Trust is what you need. Trust in yourself and that there is a grand plan for you that is just perfect for you.

So how do people get in the way of their own selves?

There are common ways people do this such as self sabotage, procrastination, repeating the same mistakes, failing to learn your own lessons, but there are also incidents such as:

1. Drowning yourself in so many irrelevant shallow and meaningless activities that the ones that need your attention to help you win in life are neglected.

2. Being greedy – you have so much stuff that it literally trips you up! Be it a cluttered room, house or office, or you have a bit of everything and a lot of nothing.

3. You make every excuse under the sun not to do and get the things you really want. My advice – JUST DO IT! Its better on the other side – trust me!

If you need help getting out of the way of your self request a complimentary coaching session with me Today! CLICK HERE

Live Your Best Life!

For more information
Contact : Jacqueline Pigdon
Tel No : +61 (0) 404 362 379
Email : jacqueline@jinalife.com